Guest on “Grida Duma Podcast” was the renowned detective, Shkënda Lili, who during the interview revealed the most extreme case of betrayal that has come to her studio.
Lili said that a woman had realized that her husband was going with his son’s daughter-in-law, and she wanted to prove this to her son. Her husband had accepted it and told her that ‘it’s better to do it inside the house than outside’.
The detective continued by saying that the woman in question had managed to make a video thanks to a device she had given her. She had sent the video to her son, who had been living without documents outside Albania for years.
Excerpt from the interview:
Without naming names and without going into depth, give me a shocking story that was shocking to you too.
The stories I have are very different, they are not similar to each other even though the essence is the same, but they have different stories. Strange cases are betrayals within the family, which means the sister-in-law goes with the brother-in-law or that are within the blood. These are cases that affect me a lot and it is very difficult for me to work on these cases. I had a case, not recently, where the father-in-law went with his son’s daughter-in-law. The son was outside Albania, working abroad. The one who called me about this was the mother-in-law.
The boy’s mother
Yes. When she told me the story, I said, ‘Is this lady okay?’ I was suspicious in the sense that maybe she’s not well psychologically.
There is paranoia…
It is an extreme case. The boy was in a country that was not equipped with documents and had not come to Albania for many years. He had married, had a child with his bride and had left. For many years without coming, he only communicated with his wife by phone. She lived with her parents. This case is in the remote areas of Albania and not in Tirana or big cities. When the mother-in-law of the bride who we had as a target told me, I was suspicious because it was unbelievable to me. For me it is a big taboo, it is extreme, the end of the world.
How old were the father-in-law and daughter-in-law?
The father-in-law was almost 70 years old and the daughter-in-law was 28-29 at the time. The way the lady in question told me, she told me that ‘I am aware and I have also told my husband’. She said that her husband had said that ‘it is better inside the house than outside the house’.
Why did he come to you?
That she wanted to prove it to her son. That she was okay with her husband after he had accepted it. She wanted to cooperate with her son to separate from his daughter-in-law. Because it is very difficult to convey this to a son only through words.
What happened to this story?
I said that it is very difficult to discover these cases inside the family. What happens, happens inside. The only thing that helped her to achieve what she wanted, to transmit it to her son, I provided her with a secret tool that we use. She figured it out herself, she just bought it. The investigation part did not work in that kind of relationship. It was impossible that they would not come out, somewhere, especially in that area where they were. Even if they did come out, they were inside the family, what would you prove.
If she went out with her father-in-law or daughter-in-law, they went somewhere. It was extremely difficult and I took this into consideration beforehand and told her ‘this case cannot be pursued outside, it has to be done inside’. The lady in question was very smart, she was quite prepared and very cooperative. She did this herself, of course with the help of me selling her the device. After I spoke to her later, she said ‘I did it’. Her phone call was very happy because she said she was in collaboration with her son. The son was very supportive of his mother after this. She had conveyed it to him in general terms but it was unacceptable.
How did this chain of ugliness finally end?
I have also seen the video that the lady in question brought me.
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Was the video a sexual act?
I’m shocked, I don’t know what to say.
Did it make you so disgusted?
On that occasion, I proved that the end of humanity has come. The lady in question transmitted the video to her son and he separated from his bride.
Did you send him the video of his father with the bride?
Absolutely. The boy came to Albania and why he was without documents. He faced this, took his mother and left, there is no communication with his father.
Did they have children?
They had a daughter.
Who is the girl hanging out with?
Until recently I had contact with the lady in question and she is in the process of divorce. She is fighting to get custody of her daughter. There is a problem that she is undocumented and it is difficult to get her to where she lives. This is the most extreme case for me.